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I gave my daughter bad advice when she was in 9th grade. She ignored it. I am grateful she did.
Karlee, my daughter, played basketball growing up. After watching her first freshman game, I advised her: "You need to pass less and take more shots."
Her teammates were not great at basketball. But they were great kids, with big, kind hearts, and a willingness, eagerness even, to work.
Karlee looked at me and said, with conviction: "If a teammate is open, I am going to pass the ball."
And that is exactly what she did.
Despite losing their first two games (by a lot), that team went on to win the vast majority of their games, beating teams that were JV level in some instances.
They rarely dribbled the ball, and they rarely took a shot from beyond 5 feet. They passed, passed, passed..., until they had a shot at the hoop. And they defended actively at the other end.
Confidence spread from player to player, starting with their point guard believing in all of them, and their coaches leaning into that pattern.
They were the happiest set of teammates I have ever watched play a sport. And the vast majority remain friends and supporters of one another today.
Two lessons I carry from that season:
1. Loyalty compounds when it flows both ways
2. Commit to long-term strategy over near-term results
Karlee graduated from ASU last weekend with a degree in Nursing. She is now off to build a career at The Mayo Clinic in Phoenix.
I could not be more proud of the person she has become (and has always been).
Dear Karlee, thank you for being amazing and thank you for being an inspiration.
I hope you, and all the recent graduates, stay true to yourselves and true to each other.