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Women do not lose trust in healthcare simply because they encounter conflicting advice from TikTok or other social media platforms. Trust is damaged when their pain is dismissed and decisions about their care are made without them. That was the thread running through a standing-room-only discussion on medical misogyny run by Mumsnet and CoSRH - College of Sexual and Reproductive Healthcare at yesterday’s Labour Party Conference in Liverpool. Dr Zara Haider, president of the College of Sexual and Reproductive Health, put it plainly: “Women are not losing trust because they’re not trusting the science. They’re losing trust because they’re not being heard.” She pointed to IUD fitting as one place where clinicians can make a practical difference: explain the possible pain beforehand, offer pain relief, and make clear that a patient can pause or stop the procedure. Justine Roberts CBE shared findings from Mumsnet’s research on medical misogyny. Among Mumsnet users surveyed, 64% said they had been told their pain or symptoms were “normal” or “in their head”. Allison Gardner argued that women should not have to be especially brave or assertive to have their needs considered during intimate examinations. The discussion also tackled health information online. Deborah Cohen explained why personal stories from influencers travel so powerfully - they offer recognition and a sense of community, but that connection can also be exploited by people selling health products. She had particular ire for doctors who did this. I liked this quote: “Inherently, healthcare is about uncertainty and about risk; it's about probabilities. Social media is where that uncertainty goes to die. Social media is very much, “this works for me,” it's cause and effect, but health is a lot greyer and messier and a lot more uncertain.” Dr Zara Haider cautioned against treating everything women bring from social media as misinformation. Sometimes they have found there the validation they could not find in a consultation. “Trust grows when patients feel respected, not corrected.” I think that is a challenge for journalism too. Evidence matters, but so does explaining uncertainty honestly and listening to the experiences behind the questions people ask. And we should hold platforms to account for how they handle women’s health information and content that exploits fear. #LabourConference2026 #WomensHealth #MedicalMisogyny